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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- Tak Jae Hoon! - Hello.
Se Jeong and Na Young of Gugudan SEMINA!
(Se Jeong and Na Young of Gugudan SEMINA)
- She's a happy mother-to-be. - Really?
She's five months pregnant. Lee Ji Hye!
- That's great news. - Congratulations, Ji Hye.
Through the popular drama, "My Golden Life",
he left a deep impression. Actor Lee Kyu Bok!
(Shy)
(It's nice to meet you.)
As some of you know,
Hello has been airing for quite a long time,
- and Jae Hoon hosted Hello... - He was the first host.
- when it started airing. - That's right.
- It's a long-running TV show. - Yes.
You left the show because you thought it'd be canceled soon.
Do you regret it?
I thought about it a few times.
I hosted another TV show on a different channel.
- It aired in the same time slot. - That's right.
- He'd promised to host the show. - I had made a promise.
- But that show got canceled soon. - Right.
(Laughing)
You were acquainted with Ji Hye...
- in the past, right? - I've known her for a long time.
It's hard to believe...
- that she's married and pregnant. - I see.
- Is a baby in your belly? - Yes.
- You're not showing. - It's because of my outfit.
I should buy clothes like that.
- Shall I give it to you? - Where did you buy it? Yes, please.
Why would you wear maternity clothes when you're not pregnant?
Whatever I wear, I can't hide my belly.
The last time she came on the show,
- she gave our guests wise advice. - Why didn't you put on the glasses?
She got a new nick name, "Doctor Se Jeong".
(Are you sure you'd be happy...)
(even if you can't make money by singing?)
(How about you consider this before you make a study plan?)
(She gave the guests smart, straightforward advice.)
Thank you for your lecture.
(Please look forward to Doctor Se Jeong's advice.)
You two are active as a unit group...
- with another member, right? - Yes. With Mi Na.
- Right? - Yes.
I think you're hosting this show exactly as it's scripted.
- That's how we do it. - I see.
Dong Yeob doesn't allow us to say anything that's not on the script.
- He doesn't waste time. - And it lasted for eight years.
- That's right. - That's how it lasted so long.
Yes.
(Let's hear their new song!)
("Semina" by Gugudan SEMINA)
(I'm so jealous)
(It's a perfect song for summer that shows their bubbly charms.)
(The audience members are mesmerized.)
(Lively and cheery)
(Look at them!)
(They're the best.)
(It fits everyone's preferences.)
Awesome!
He's probably unfamiliar to many people.
He's been watching us with a dazed face...
sitting there like a member of audience.
He didn't seem to know what kind of facial expression...
- to make. - Right.
The other guests reacted naturally...
while listening to each other, but he was like...
It's because this is his first time on a variety show.
(Kyu Bok seems to feel uncomfortable even to breathe.)
(Giggling)
(Why can't you laugh when everyone else is laughing?)
(Even when the girl group members were dancing,)
(he looked serious.)
Is it hard to decide on the facial expression to make?
- You can just react naturally... - No.
- I'm okay... - He seems surprised.
- Try to smile a little bit. - Smile when you talk.
- I'm not used to this. - I see.
In "My Golden Life", he played Park Si Hoo's secretary,
and they created a bromance,
which made the drama more interesting.
Are you good friends with Si Hoo in real life too?
Yes. Well, at least I think...
- Why are you so conscious of us? - It's not like that.
- Do you have his number? - Yes, I do.
- If you have his number... - I see.
Do you two text each other too?
- Sure. We eat together too. - They must be close friends.
- They must be. - When did you last talk to him?
- About a week ago. - They're close friends.
Did you talk to him on the phone or meet him?
He suddenly called me.
- What did he say? - He called you?
Please tell us the whole story.
(Laughing)
He only answers to our questions...
- and says nothing else. - Right.
We see each other often, and he called me a week ago.
He asked how I was doing and if I had eaten.
I think we talked to each other for an hour.
- For an hour? - They must be close to each other.
By the way, I think his method is quite good.
Since he told short answers, we all became more curious.
That's right. He made me curious.
It's a good way to lead a conversation.
- I... - He's interesting.
(He's charming.)
I wonder what stories we have today. Please show us the keywords.
- "You Little Rabbit". - "You Little Rabbit".
"Please Resolve My Deep Sorrow".
- "The Girl in Crisis". - Yes.
"You Little Rabbit".
Hello. I'm a mother of 3 children in my 40s.
After my children started middle and high school,
I thought I could enjoy a relaxing time, but one year ago,
something happened, and that caused big trouble.
You're her eldest daughter. She comes in and says...
"Mom, I'll introduce you to Andre."
"He's the youngest of our family from today."
Andre whom my 19-year-old eldest daughter brought home...
has a white face, big eyes,
- and cute, plump feet. - Is it a puppy?
He's a rabbit.
- He's actually a rabbit? - Yes, he's a rabbit.
However, Andre drives me crazy.
"Darn. I have the rabbit's fur all over my clothes."
"Remove it with tape."
"Mom, I have a sore throat because of the rabbit fur."
"Gosh. I stepped on its poop again."
"Mom, Andre chewed the wire of the air conditioner."
- "The wire of hair dryer too." - That's dangerous.
Because my eldest daughter insists on keeping Andre inside the house,
there are rabbit fur and poop all over the house,
and he chewed all the wires. Our house is a mess.
That's not all. "Daughter, clean up the rabbit poop, will you?"
"Okay."
"And remove its fur too."
"Okay."
She says she will do it,
but in the end, I'm the one who cleans up all the mess.
"I can't do this anymore. It's too much for me."
"How about we send Andre to a better place for him?"
"No. Andre is like my little brother."
- "If he dies, I'll kill myself." - Gosh.
She's so stubborn. She never listens to me.
What should I do to end this war against the rabbit?
That's the end of the story.
(I want to end the war against the rabbit.)
Have you ever raised a pet animal?
No, I haven't.
But my cousin raised a rabbit...
for 12 years.
It died not long ago.
Really?
Yes. I heard about stories, so I know a lot about a rabbit.
- She's a rabbit expert. - No, I'm not.
Let's meet our guest and hear her out.
Please come out.
(There have been many stories about animals on Hello!)
(This time, it's a rabbit.)
(Animals are my expertise.)
(Who is worried about her daughter who dotes on her rabbit?)
(Kim Hye Seon)
- Welcome. - Hello.
- Is your rabbit's name Andre? - Andre.
- Yes, it is. - Andre.
- I don't... - Why did she choose that name?
I don't know why she picked that name.
At a school supply store,
there's a random toy drawing game.
She won a rabbit as a prize and brought it home.
(Can they win a rabbit?)
I found the rabbit cute at first.
- But she... - Rabbits are small and cute.
- They're cute. - Yes.
My daughter is hooked on the rabbit too much.
Maybe, the store owner also had a hard time raising rabbits,
so he wrote "Rabbit" on every ticket.
Everyone won a rabbit.
- Her daughter was one of them. - Right.
When she comes home, she goes to see her rabbit...
instead of saying hi to her family.
All she cares about is her rabbit.
She goes into her room with her rabbit.
Does she stay in her room with it on a hot day?
Yes. At first, she promised to keep it in the veranda.
However, she said it was too cold in winter,
- and in summer, - It's hot in summer.
the rabbit got mosquito bites.
And she brought the rabbit inside the house.
(Her daughter brought the rabbit inside the house.)
If she keeps the rabbit in the veranda,
you wouldn't have any serious problems, right?
Well, yes. For now.
I get it. You want the rabbit to leave your house, right?
(Was it obvious?)
Since I have a job, it's tiring to clean the house...
after work.
But my daughter never cleans up the mess. She only dotes on him.
- I find a fistful of rabbit fur... - Rabbit fur.
in every corner of the house when I clean the house.
- Do rabbits shed a lot of fur? - A lot. Yes.
- When they're molting. - Especially when they're molting.
When I do laundry,
- colored clothes look white. - Because of the rabbit fur.
(There's rabbit fur all over the clothes.)
So...
I have to remove the fur with tape whenever I fold the laundry.
And Andre chewed on power cords of phone chargers,
internet modem, and air conditioner.
We can't even turn on the air conditioner.
- It's dangerous. - Yes.
He also chewed the hair dryer power cord.
My eldest daughter touched it...
- and got slightly electrocuted. - My goodness.
(She got electrocuted!)
(She could've been hurt badly.)
Does a rabbit not get electrocuted?
We thought about it too.
Exactly. While chewing on the cord...
(Like this!)
If he got electrocuted,
- he wouldn't have chewed again. - Right.
As a matter of fact, I'm worried he might get electrocuted.
However...
You worry about him despite the trouble he causes.
Of course.
- It's a living thing. - Of course.
- And her daughter adores him. - Yes.
(I'm frustrated.)
- You said you have three children. - Yes.
Are the other two children okay with raising a rabbit?
All three of them have atopic dermatitis.
Nevertheless, my eldest daughter likes the rabbit so much...
that she wears a mask.
(She wears a mask inside of her house.)
(That's hardcore.)
She wears a mask. And my second daughter...
has a rash on her inner thigh...
because her atopic dermatitis got worse.
(She must be worried.)
We asked her to show us some photos of her house.
(The power cords that the rabbit chewed)
- That's dangerous. - It's really dangerous.
- It's dangerous. - They're all peeled off.
- Oh, no. Right. I remember. - My goodness.
(The wallpaper is torn off.)
He chewed the wallpaper too? You didn't tell us that.
He chewed the wallpaper too.
- Does he do that too? - Yes.
- What's that? - That's rabbit poop, right?
- Rabbit poop? - Right.
When we raised rabbits in a cage, it fell down to the ground.
- The situation looks serious. - What's that?
Your daughter stays with... Does she keep the rabbit...
- in her room? - Yes.
Your daughter is sleeping with a mask on,
leaving rabbit poop on the floor?
- Gosh. - The pad is also very dirty.
There's pee on it and everything.
(This is how we're living.)
Let's meet her 19-year-old eldest daughter...
who loves her rabbit so much. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is the daughter who only cares about her rabbit?)
Gosh. You look like a nice, but self-centered girl.
Do you understand why your mom is worried?
In fact, a rabbit is as cute as...
a hamster or a chick.
That's why I brought him home.
I don't know why it's a worry.
You promised to keep the rabbit in the veranda.
Yes, but it's not good for the rabbit.
In autumn, there's a big temperature difference between day and night.
On a cold day, I woke up in the morning,
and my rabbit suddenly sneezed.
I heard that rabbits may die easily when they catch a cold.
Also, we have a lot of bugs in our house as we live on the first floor.
I was worried he might get bug bites.
Since he's like my family,
I decided to keep him in my room.
- Kyu Bok, ask her a question. - Okay.
(Finally!)
(His 1st question on his 1st variety show!)
(What could his question be?)
What kind of question shall I ask?
(The veteran entertainers are laughing hard.)
Ask anything that comes in your mind.
- That's a thoughtful question. - Kyu Bok.
What kind of question do you want?
Please tell us.
You've been listening to her.
- Yes, but I don't have a question. - Not yet.
So can I ask her a question a little bit later?
- Okay. - He's honest.
- Then hear her out a little longer, - Right.
- and when you have a question, - He's honest.
- please ask her. - I'll do that.
It seems that you're happy,
but the rabbit has made your house a mess,
so your mom is having a hard time.
In fact, my mom cleaned up...
his pee and poop before.
But I've been doing it since I brought him into my room...
because my room gets dirty in the end.
You didn't clean your room.
- I saw all the poop on the floor. - But...
(Taken aback)
I saw that your rabbit chewed...
all the power cords in your house.
- It seems very dangerous. - Right.
I pulled all of them out...
and put them on the desk.
Your family can't use the air conditioner during the hot summer.
About the air conditioner...
I think that's not fair because my mom used to...
tell me to turn off the air conditioner in three minutes.
We never used the air conditioner that much.
- She complains it because of Andre. - Another story from her side.
She complains that it's hot in the house.
Your mom made the rabbit chew the cord.
It seems to me that she's optimistic about matters regarding the rabbit.
We heard what happened.
You got electrocuted by your hair dryer before.
I plugged it in to dry my hair.
And I felt a stinging feeling.
- That's dangerous. - That's dangerous.
It only stung a little bit.
I noticed that my rabbit chewed on it,
- so I put tape around the cord. - She's optimistic.
(Her mom is frustrated.)
You wear a mask inside your house.
Doesn't that mean it's hard for you too?
I easily catch a cold...
and have throat problems.
My throat hurt so much when he was shedding fur.
So I put a mask on my face and a scarf around my neck.
I don't mind it as long as I can be with my rabbit.
- You're having... - Kyu Bok, do you have a question?
(He finally starts talking.)
He has a question.
(Kyu Bok asks his first question.)
- He seems curious. - Kyu Bok.
You wear a mask when you sleep because it's hard.
Your younger sister is suffering from atopic dermatitis.
Shouldn't you worry about her?
- But... - He's right.
She didn't develop atopic dermatitis because of Andre.
Ever since she was born, she's been...
suffering from atopic dermatitis.
Andre doesn't have anything to do with it.
He could've made her condition worse.
- That's right. - No. He didn't make it worse.
She's always been like this. I know that.
- She says her sister is fine. - Every summer...
Kyu Bok, she said you were wrong, so apologize to her.
I'm sorry.
(He's getting used to a variety show.)
Let's meet today's star,
- Andre. - I want to see him.
We asked her to bring Andre here.
(Screaming)
He's sensitive to sound.
- It scares him. We should be quiet. - Really?
Everyone, please keep it down.
(Here comes Andre.)
Yes. Please sit there.
Look how big his eyes are.
- My goodness. - He has such big eyes.
My goodness.
(Big, sparkling eyes)
- He's cute. - It's amazing...
that she raised him so well.
- Tell us good things about Andre. - About Andre?
First of all, Andre...
If you look at his face...
(I'll tell you about my little brother Andre.)
(He wiggles his nose when he's glad to see someone.)
(He's shy despite his big body.)
(But once he gets to know them, he becomes cheery.)
- His fur comes down like this. - He looks cute.
Can you see it?
(His fur comes down...)
(like a fringe.)
Just like Moon Hee Joon's hairstyle when H.O.T. was active.
- He looks adorable. - I call it Moon Hee Joon Hair.
When I give him food,
he runs towards me really quickly.
He's so cute when he does that. He licks my hand too.
(Unhappy)
Can Andre recognize you?
- He stays still. - I think he recognizes her.
- Well... - No, look.
- Andre. - He will just stay still there.
(She pushes him.)
(He stays still.)
(I am a good rabbit.)
- Andre. - Andre.
Andre. Here.
(Will he go to his owner?)
- Here. - He's moving.
(Andre is moving.)
(Is he going to Se Jeong?)
(Did he choose Se Jeong?)
(Hey, where are you going?)
- Is it Se Jeong? - Hey.
- Andre. - Andre.
(Where will he go?)
- He's going to his mommy. - He recognized his owner.
(He goes to his owner.)
No way.
(However)
(What?)
(He goes straight to his owner,)
(but he turns right.)
(This is a variety show, you know.)
What is the food he likes the most?
(He goes next to Dong Yeob.)
- Look. - I am the Animal Farm guy.
- Yes. - He really chose Dong Yeob.
- Look how comfortable he looks. - What does Andre like the most?
- He likes... - What does he like the most?
- Dried grass and rabbit food. - Hay.
He loves fruits, so I give him a lot of fruits.
Fruits.
- He's not that fast. - Aren't those for people?
(They look appetizing to Yeong Ja.)
(Calm down, Yeong Ja.)
There's hay, rabbit food, and fruits.
- Which one will he go for? - Apple. He's eating the apple.
Can he eat the big chunk?
- He's so cute. - Isn't he so fascinating?
How about some carrots?
(Carrot is the 2nd food.)
He won't even look at the carrot.
(Move it away from me.)
Right. Carrot. In children's books, rabbits love carrots.
But he won't eat it.
Will he eat grapes too?
(Does he eat grapes too?)
Did you grab that for yourself?
- That's for the rabbit. - I mean...
If Andre doesn't eat it, it will go to waste.
Eat some hay this time.
(I don't want it.)
- He won't eat the hay. - He's domesticated,
Eat the banana.
My goodness.
(I love banana the most.)
- He took it from me. - Goodness.
Look at him. Look.
He's doing an eating show.
(Andre's eating show begins now.)
(She loves him so much.)
He doesn't seem to lose hair, but he must lose a lot of hair.
- He's hopping. - That's so fascinating.
(He hops around to aid the digestion.)
It's so fascinating.
- My goodness. - How cute.
(Thank you for the food.)
He's adorable.
The viewer rating will go up a little if he poops.
- Right. - I hope he poops 15 lumps.
Look at him.
(One person can't laugh.)
By the way, do you find him cute too?
I adore him too.
I think he's adorable. But my daughter becomes...
so sensitive and fussy about the rabbit.
So I can't just adore him.
When my husband says he can't breathe because of all the fur,
she gets really upset at us.
She gets upset at us for not understanding.
- Does she yell? - She does.
- She talks back. - Wait.
You shouldn't get upset at your mom, shout at her,
- and glare at your dad, should you? - You shouldn't do that.
I am not that bad. I just whine.
(Why would we worry then?)
Let's ask the second daughter.
Do you fight a lot with your sister because of the rabbit?
I think she's not in her right mind.
Why do you say that?
She likes the rabbit...
to the point of making the day-to-day life uncomfortable.
Whenever she sleeps over at her friend's,
she calls me in the middle of the night...
asks to put Andre on the video chat.
(What on earth?)
Because she disturbs my sleep, we end up fighting.
Also, when we are in the room,
she sometimes treats me like Andre's butler.
She tells me to clean the room because Andre has to come in.
She tells me to get water for Andre.
She tells me to clean Andre's poop.
The poop smells too bad, so it's tough.
I heard the rabbit upset you many other times.
I like NCT.
Andre nibbled on NCT's poster.
- The NCT poster. - He nibbled on 10 headphones.
He even nibbled on my jacket.
So I got really upset one time.
But she yelled back at me not to get upset over such a small thing.
- She yelled at you. - I felt so bad at that time.
One time, she even put rabbit poop on my pencil case.
(That's the worst thing she could have done.)
(She's unbelievable.)
What was that?
The rabbit poop... Rabbit poop doesn't smell.
I am used to it. I'm used to touching it too.
Why did you put it in her pencil case?
But kids don't like poop.
To be funny, you can stick it near their faces...
and say it's poop. Kids hate that.
- I was just trying to be funny. - Right.
The rabbit nibbled on the NCT poster,
which your sister cherished, but you yelled at her.
Honestly, he's nibbled on many things.
Other family members make sure to put things at higher places.
But she always put things on the floor.
She should take good care of her things.
It's not like the rabbit can understand her if she yells at him.
She would swear at him and get mad at him.
- Are you saying it's her fault? - And about the NCT poster...
We bought two of the same thing.
I took good care of my poster. It's still fine.
She put out hers...
You can give her yours.
(She could give her sister her poster.)
Right. You can just give her your poster.
(She won't take responsibility for her actions.)
Let's hear from their little brother.
Does your eldest sister make you do things for the rabbit?
She tells me to give him water or rabbit food.
If I get lazy and delay it, she yells at me for delaying it.
She once pulled my hair.
She grabbed your hair like this?
One time, I didn't see Andre and accidentally kicked him.
When she saw it, she yelled at me for kicking him...
and hit the back of my neck using the side of her hand.
- Using the side of her hand? - Like this?
- My goodness. - Like this?
You must be the most perplexed one.
- He was the victim. - Yes.
(All the family members are victims.)
What's really serious is that she comes home...
in the middle of school hours to see the rabbit.
- She leaves the school? - She leaves the school?
She leaves school to see the rabbit?
I don't get to see him for many hours. I don't leave that early.
I leave just a little earlier than the usual.
- That's what I do. - What's that?
What can I do? I can't stop thinking about the rabbit.
So I go home early.
Perhaps, she's using the rabbit as an excuse to skip class.
Did you skip school to see the rabbit skip?
(He makes a joke.)
(And the audience boos at him.)
(His joke is so chilling.)
(We might freeze to death.)
I was thinking about when to say it.
(He goes sulky.)
I was also thinking about whether to say that or not.
- I'm glad I didn't say it. - Yes.
- But really. - I bet you skipped school too.
I have never skipped school. Never.
Have you skipped tutoring then?
The tutoring...
- She's done it. - She's done it.
(My goodness.)
You've heard her story. What do you think?
Because she was my first child,
I didn't know what was the right way to bring her up.
Because she was the first child, you let her do whatever she wanted.
- That made her become selfish. - She became selfish.
When does she appear to be selfish?
If she thinks something is right,
she never changes.
When we dine outside, she forces us to...
- get what she craves for. - She does?
Yes. She used to...
go to an arts high school.
- But she dropped out. - Drop out?
- Why did she drop out? - She said the way she spent...
time in school was not the way she wanted to spend her time.
She's studying for the qualification exam for a high school diploma.
When she should be studying hard, she is just holding the rabbit.
- So we are... - You are worried about her.
(What do I do about my daughter who is obsessed with a rabbit?)
(Well...)
What exactly do you want from your daughter?
I want her to keep Andre in the veranda.
- In the veranda. - Yes.
And I want her to study harder. She doesn't have much time left.
Can you grant your mom's wish...
and keep Andre in the veranda?
- I don't know. - That's the least thing you can do.
But it's like this.
I've been presenting an animal-related TV show.
And I've realized that the favor you have been doing to the animal...
could have really tormented...
- the animal. - To Andre?
- Tormenting. - Exactly.
What if staying in your room...
is really torturing for the rabbit?
What if you are doing what he hates the most?
(Am I making Andre miserable?)
- That's so sad, isn't it? - It's sad.
That's why we want to see how much you know about rabbits...
and if you know about it well.
(Hello Quiz, All About Rabbit)
What's the most suitable temperature for rabbits?
It's on the Internet.
- The owner must know it. - She loves it so much.
- She must know it. - Right.
Right?
How about this then?
How much exercise should the rabbit get in a day?
- Two hours? - Right?
(She thinks it's 2 hours.)
No.
You got everything wrong.
To raise a rabbit inside a house,
you need to maintain the temperature of...
25 to 26°C.
When you raise it inside a room,
and if the room is not ventilated enough,
it might be very bad to the rabbit.
Rabbits need about four hours of exercise a day.
So it's best to keep them...
in a big space.
What's the reason you don't keep him in the veranda?
We live on the first floor, so there are insects.
But rabbits don't get affected by heart worms.
- They are safe. - So they are...
much more immune to insects than dogs.
Actually, when you keep him in the veranda,
you have more work to do.
You have to control the temperature of the veranda.
You have to make it a suitable environment for the rabbit.
But those are very beneficial for the rabbit.
My cousin raised a rabbit in the veranda for 12 years.
It's actually not as dangerous as you think,
and like he said, it's very beneficial for the rabbit.
(For Andre, she needs to keep him in the veranda.)
- Kyu Bok. - Yes.
I think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry for the mother.
I think it's a big worry.
It's the matter of responsibility.
You have to take responsibility for the rabbit.
You decided to drop out of school, so you need take the responsibility.
For the mother, this is certainly a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
Why don't you talk to your mom?
Mom.
I didn't know...
that you were so worried about me.
Oh, no.
She's sorry.
She cares about her mom.
- She cares about her family. - She's a good girl.
- Why are you crying? - Tell us.
- Why are you crying? - It's all right.
- She's sorry. - Honestly...
Did you know about all of these?
I did, but I didn't know...
that Andre needs to stay in the veranda.
Talk to your mom then. She wants you to keep him in the veranda.
Give her the answer.
Mom, I am sorry.
From now on, I will try even harder.
I will keep him in the veranda.
Let's see how many votes she got. Please reveal the result.
"You Little Rabbit".
Let's see how many votes she got.
She got over 100 votes.
(How many people will sympathize with the mother of a rabbit-lover?)
Is it 127?
(Clapping)
Next story is titled,
"Please Resolve My Deep Sorrow".
I will give you a role.
Please play it with confidence.
- He's a blunt husband. - Is that me?
- Yes. - Is that right?
Hello. I am a woman in her 50s from Seoul.
I've been married for 29 years.
I came here with a determination to put an end to this life.
Because of my husband, I am frustrated...
beyond imagination.
The door would open.
"Are you home, honey?"
This is the husband.
(Let's see.)
- There are three dots. - Yes.
(He doesn't say anything.)
Just say, "Dot, dot, dot".
- That's the hardest to act. - Yes. It is.
And you want me to play that role?
- Yes. - Right.
You won't say any words,
but you have to express the character.
- "Are you home, honey?" - There you go.
(He tries to become the blunt man.)
"It was really hot today, wasn't it?"
"How was work today, honey?"
There are three dots again.
(He's done acting the blunt character.)
Yes.
My husband never says anything.
Ever since we got married, he's been treating me like I don't exist.
He doesn't talk.
He's so cold-hearted and indifferent.
"My head hurts. Honey, I feel really sick right now."
"Can I get three dollars for the medicine?"
"Honey?"
"I don't have it."
When I am sick, he says...
he doesn't even have three dollars.
"Hey, you are moving?"
"Okay. I will send it to you right away. Wait."
When his sister asked for money, he sent her 1,000 dollars right away.
He said he didn't even have three dollars.
One time, I was driving, and he was in the passenger seat.
And we got into a car accident.
"Mister, I turned on the turn signal."
"What? You crossed the yellow line first."
"Hey! I... Honey. Talk to him."
"Listen to this man."
"It was your fault. What's wrong with you?"
"Apologize to him."
(He told her to apologize to the man.)
The whole time we've been married,
he has never been on my side.
I've developed this bitterness over the past 29 years.
Please listen to my story. She sent this to us.
How is your husband, Ji Hye?
My husband thinks whatever I say is law.
(How sweet.)
I am sorry.
No. No. Why did you come here when you are that happy?
Why did you come here to get the viewers' love?
- I am sorry. - Kyu Bok.
I am just really curious. What are you thinking right now?
(What are you thinking right now?)
(He feels guilty.)
(Whenever we don't pay attention to him, he zones out.)
This story...
reminded me of my dad.
Is he quiet?
He's very quiet. Whenever I took my friends home...
and told him that I brought my friends...
(He didn't say anything.)
He just looked at us and left.
That really stressed me out.
I still don't know why he does that.
Let's bring her in.
Please come on out.
(Who is frustrated because of her indifferent husband?)
(Lee In Sook)
(She looks very depressed.)
She looks so serious...
- that... - Yes?
I don't know what to say to her.
Jae Hoon played your husband.
Is he even more taciturn than Jae Hoon?
Or is Jae Hoon more taciturn?
My husband is worse.
How taciturn...
and indifferent is he?
Are you sure you are not more taciturn than him?
(She's flustered.)
Ma'am.
- Right. - Wait.
- This is going to be hard. - Wait.
We've lived together...
for 29 years.
But he doesn't know when my birthday is.
He doesn't know when our wedding anniversary is.
Our children told him...
when they are.
- But he doesn't care. - But he doesn't care.
(He's terrible.)
I got into a car accident and got really ill.
I stayed in the hospital for a week,
and he didn't visit me once.
And he didn't visit me once.
(It's shocking.)
- That's too mean. - One time, I had a stomachache...
and asked him for medicine.
(Thinking about it makes her sigh.)
He said, "Are you a doctor?"
"Why don't you go to the clinic?"
"Why are you asking me to buy the medicine?"
I asked him for three dollars, but he didn't give it to me.
So I went out and got it myself.
But he sent his sister 1,000 dollars.
When his sister called him and asked him for money to move,
he sent her 1,000 dollars at once.
- He didn't give you three dollars. - No.
(Can't you even spare 3 dollars for me?)
When he comes home,
do you say, "Are you home, honey," in a sweet way?
"The weather was cold today. How did you work?"
He answers, "It wasn't cold!"
How can I continue the conversation after that?
How does he treat other people?
- Is he good to people? - Is he friendly?
- He's very friendly to them. - Really?
We attend church. At the church,
he washes dishes. He talks to people well.
He helps people well too.
He treats strangers to a meal,
and he gives things to them.
- That's so sad. - But he does nothing for me.
He thinks it's a waste of money.
Does he always give a negative answer?
Yes.
"Let's go to the church, honey."
"What church? I am going to a Buddhist temple."
- He doesn't do that. - He doesn't.
- That would make you feel terrible. - By the way,
Dong Yeob must've felt embarrassed.
Dong Yeob made the joke...
- I wanted to make her laugh. - to make her laugh.
She could've laughed. But...
She didn't laugh.
(She looked unimpressed.)
She's feeling too bitter right now.
Have you done anything wrong to your husband?
No.
- What do you mean no? - No.
(Stop joking.)
- She smiled. - She smiled.
(She's smiling big.)
- She smiled. - She smiled.
(She smiled.)
She smiled.
My goodness.
(The natural-born comedian, Tae Gyun, made her smile.)
Dong Yeob failed to make her smile.
You failed.
When you got into a fight after the car accident,
- The car accident. - he didn't side with you.
When the car in front of me was changing the lane,
the driver didn't turn on the turn signal.
I got hurt.
He should've asked me...
how much I got hurt.
But he shouted at me, "It was your fault. Apologize right now."
- He did that. - Just like that?
- In front of that man? - Yes.
- That must've made her sad. - Yes.
Whether it was her fault or not was not important.
"You must be surprised. It's all right. It can happen."
That's all he needed to tell her.
Or he should've apologized on her behalf.
Then you wouldn't have felt so bad, right?
(How can I not get bitter?)
By the way, it seems like...
he has sided with other people many times.
- Were there other occasions? - This happened once.
On our street... Gosh. I'm thirsty.
My goodness.
When you have pent-up resentment,
thinking about those occasions can be hard.
- Her heart aches. - Tell us.
On our street is an office supply store.
- An office supply store. - In front of it is a mailbox.
When I drive past it, I always end up scratching the car.
Other people do the same.
I made a complaint and got the mailbox removed.
However, my husband said that...
it's embarrassing how I keep making a civil complaint.
I told him that it was necessary...
since the mailbox was inconveniencing...
other people as well.
I told him that it didn't harm anyone.
He should have sided with me, right?
He never does that. He always sides with other people.
Is he friendly to his children?
- Is he friendly to his children? - No.
When the children hug him after he comes back from work,
(There's no exception.)
he goes, "Go away. I am tired."
It hurt their feelings.
They even told me to divorce him.
(Divorce him.)
- They told me that. - Your children told you that.
It must have made your heart ache.
It made my heart ache.
Did they happen to raise a rabbit from their young age?
No.
I see.
Would you capture her on the camera?
She is looking sideways, right?
She does it to avoid...
looking at her husband because he makes her angry.
He doesn't look in her direction either.
He is frowning.
(How did we come this far?)
Let's talk to In Sook's husband.
How do you call him?
(How does she call him?)
I call him Pig.
What?
(Where is Pig?)
(She bursts out laughing.)
- Pig. - She laughed!
She laughed!
(Good job, Yeong Ja.)
Pig?
She calls her husband Pig.
Pig, where are you? Pig.
It's nice to meet you.
Was she truthful...
with her words?
Yes, it's true that...
I am indifferent.
You should do your best to your wife.
How could you say that with a smile?
She is your only wife.
Why are you indifferent to her?
She says negative things.
- That's why... - There is more to the story.
- There is more to the story. - In that case,
tell us if she made you upset in any way.
I make my own breakfast and dinner...
every day.
When I ask her to cook her me, she goes,
"Don't you have hands or feet? Cook for yourself."
It's upsetting.
Something must have built up...
before she got to that point.
I said those words...
because he was indifferent when I was sick.
I knew it.
Even when I was at a hospital...
She is upset.
(Thinking about it still upsets her.)
Is it true that you never visited her...
when she was hospitalized...
after a car accident?
I couldn't go because I was busy with work.
You could have made time...
to visit your wife once.
The hospital takes care of its patients.
It was hard the visit the hospital in the evening...
and work the next day.
What do you do for a living?
I am a mailman.
- I see. - You are a mailman.
You deliver letters and parcels.
You didn't have the peace of mind to visit.
No.
(He always uses work as his excuse.)
You know your wife's birthday, right?
You just don't get her presents.
I don't know the exact date. I have a rough idea.
What?
(That makes no sense.)
What do you mean you have a rough idea?
When do you think is her birthday?
I think it's fourth of May.
- Is he right? - No, it's third of May.
It's third of May.
(He missed by a day.)
He really has a rough idea.
- He really has a rough idea. - This is too much.
He got it wrong by a day.
Do you know when your wedding anniversary is?
Give us a rough estimate.
I think it's 23rd of March.
(He thinks it's 23rd of March.)
Is he right?
(Is he right...)
(this time?)
It's 24th of March.
He really has a rough idea.
- This is incredible. - You should know these dates.
I feel like he is doing this on purpose.
He thinks its 23rd, but it's 24th.
He doesn't know anything.
Let me ask you this.
- Do you know when his birthday is? - 16th of October.
Is she right?
Yes, she is.
- She knows. - Since he has a bad liver,
I went to catch freshwater snails for him.
- That must have been hard. - In November,
- the water is cold. - It's cold.
You need 10kg of freshwater snails for medicine.
I made 5 or 6 trips to catch...
- 10kg of freshwater snails. - 10kg.
I almost died from a cold.
It must have been hard in November.
He should have thanked me, but he didn't.
- Did he eat the medicine? - Yes. He only ate.
- Did he finish it? - Yes.
- Sir. - I thought...
she only did what she had to do.
She made six trips in November...
to catch 10kg of freshwater snails.
Why didn't you do the same for her birthday?
I am not good at expressing myself.
- I see. - I heard...
- you are good to other people. - That's right.
You even do volunteer work at the church.
I wouldn't call them volunteer work.
I am a deacon at the church,
so I have to work.
Are you saying you treat others well at the church...
because of your position?
That's right. I can't desert...
my position.
(You don't even do your job as a husband.)
I heard you side with strangers.
Tell us about the mailbox.
- Why did you scold her? - Someone else...
could have made a complaint.
I don't know why she had to do it.
- You didn't want her to do that. - No.
I work at the post office.
What would my coworkers say if they find out?
- I see. - I don't have...
good reputations...
because she always takes charge...
when something happens.
Can you give us some examples?
They had a construction in front of our house...
due to the old sewer system.
The cement got on the vegetables...
- in our garden. - It got on the vegetables.
The vegetables died.
She talked about calling the police because of that.
She always calls the police.
Do you call the police often?
Yes.
The thing is,
I got into the habit.
You do it without thinking.
- She didn't do anything wrong. - No.
- They simply have different styles. - That's right.
The children must have a say on the matter.
- Let's talk to their children. - Are they here?
- Hello. - Hello.
As their daughter, who do you think has a bigger worry?
- Mom. - Mom has a bigger worry.
When I was young, Dad never spent time with me.
When I asked him for a hug, he told me to go away.
- You never felt Dad's love. - That's right.
You must have wondered...
why he acts that way...
to his daughter.
(She can't stop the tears because she is so upset.)
[VIU Ver] E373 Hello Counselor "Please Take Care of Your Family" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
She must be very upset with him.
Let's ask the daughter.
Tell us in which ways your dad made you upset.
In fourth grade, I had an appendectomy.
(Crying)
- Don't cry. - Both In Sook and her daughter...
- have pent-up resentment. - It seems that way.
I really don't understand.
Why did you tell your child to go away...
when she asked for a hug?
I don't hate her. She is my child.
(I don't hate her. She is my child.)
- "I don't hate her." - He doesn't say nice words.
- Why would you say that? - He doesn't say nice words.
I guess he is embarrassed.
For 29 years, he has been acting...
- like a bad man. - That's right.
Now that you have calmed down,
- you should talk to us. - Tell us everything.
- You can go slow. - When I had an appendectomy,
he never visited once during my week-long hospital stay.
He never asked me if I am okay.
- He didn't say anything. - Did you ask him...
why he never visited?
- You didn't, right? - I didn't.
You let it pass.
I didn't want to create an emotional scar.
- You held yourself back. - You know,
- when you don't talk to each other, - That's right.
emotional baggage piles up...
and misunderstanding deepens.
Don't you talk to your dad on a regular basis?
No, I don't. He mostly talks...
to grandma.
- Grandma? - Yes.
You lived with your mother-in-law for 29 years.
Yes. Although we live...
in separate floors now, I go straight to her after work.
You go straight to her after work.
When something comes up,
my husband consults with his mother...
and notifies me afterward.
My mother listens without judgment...
no matter what I say. My wife is different.
She attacks my smallest fault.
Didn't you have conversations with your wife...
when you dated her?
We met through a matchmaker.
There is a reason why I chose my wife.
I had about 30 marriage interviews before I got married.
He had 50 marriage interviews.
You had 50 marriage interviews.
- How does the daughter know? - The thing is...
She wasn't born back then.
When I talked to women,
they didn't like the idea of living with my parent.
In Sook agreed to live with my parent.
I didn't marry her because I like her.
(I didn't marry her because I like her.)
- As I lived... - How could you say that?
(Complaints flood in.)
Everyone.
Hold on.
(How could he say that?)
(How is this my life?)
Even if that's the case,
you should be grateful and apologetic.
You should love her more for that.
The thing is,
when I do something wrong,
she should just blame me.
She always says my mother taught me wrong.
- What? - She always says...
negative things.
She always says his mother taught him wrong.
Does she say your mother taught him wrong?
That's right.
Since my father passed away when I was three years old,
my mother struggled to raise three children.
In Sook's words make me explode.
Why did you say that?
- You shouldn't have done that. - In Sook.
I wouldn't have said those words if he hadn't done anything wrong.
He always brings it upon himself.
- What do you mean? - My husband does that.
- Be that as it may, - I can't help myself.
you shouldn't insult his mother.
We have unspoken rules about not insulting...
one's family.
- You should have stopped yourself. - I had my reasons.
What are the reasons?
We had a small house.
I suggested that we sell the house because the price was nice...
and my husband agreed.
The house got sold right away and we moved.
He swore and said I made the decision on my own.
My goodness.
(They always hurl hurtful words to each other.)
- Did he swear at you? - Yes.
(He swore despite agreeing to the decision.)
He swears a lot.
- Does he usually swear at you? - He does it on a regular basis.
Why did you swear at her?
Well, I don't remember.
(Frustrated)
I don't remember that incident.
(What should we do about them?)
However, I do swear at her when we fight.
Do you swear at her because she swears at you?
Are you the only one who swears at her?
She swears when I swear first.
(This is hard.)
(Sighing)
They lived this way for 29 years.
Had they lived this way for a year or two,
we would know who is at fault right away.
However, the stories are mixed and we don't know what came first.
It can't be helped.
You gave us a big task.
It's hard.
Let's tackle little at a time.
(Will they be able to break down the walls in their hearts?)
What do you think?
From elementary school to college,
he never came...
to my entrance ceremony or graduation.
(He never came.)
He didn't even know the dates.
On the weekend or his day off,
he goes out on his own.
- Your dad does that. - He doesn't tell us...
where he is going.
He never spends time with us.
It's frustrating.
Have you made an attempt...
to talk to your dad?
A man to a man.
I invited him to have a drink with me.
- The two of us met and talked. - You did a good job.
He only went, "Why aren't you on my side?"
No matter what I say, he goes back to those words.
At the end of the worship,
people hold hands.
I have never seen my parents hold hands.
I tried to make them hold hands,
but they shook off each other's hand every time.
- It must have been awkward. - You know,
I bet they didn't do it at the same time.
When one person does it,
the other person follows in embarrassment.
What would you do...
- if your husband holds your hand? - Would you hold his hand?
(What would she do if her husband holds her hand?)
- She would hold his hand. - I would hold his hand.
- What? - That's right.
Why?
You hate him.
Even though I had him, he is the father to the children.
I would do it for my children.
(Sad)
I am curious about something.
- What? - Kyu Bok.
(Kyu Bok finally opened his mouth.)
He must be very curious about something.
He sighed...
about 200 times.
Even if you are indifferent by nature,
they are your family.
Then you must have some feelings for your family.
But when I hear you talk,
I don't feel any love for your family.
Don't you feel love for your family?
All right.
Kyu Bok concluded he doesn't feel love for his family.
I am wondering...
if his children upset him in any way.
- I bet they did. - Sir, please talk to us.
They do upset me. Because my wife doesn't respect me,
they don't respect me either.
It's upsetting.
Is that why you leave the house?
I need peace after work.
They look down on me and ostracize me.
You feel that way at home.
(That's why you should have been nice to them.)
It's frustrating.
I want them to have a conversation,
- but there is a big wall. - That's right.
It's hard.
We will give you a chance to talk to each other without us.
Say what you want to say.
Look him in the eye.
- Look him in the eye. - We can do...
- whatever we want, right? - Don't say negative words.
(He is on his phone.)
Do you want to go first?
Gather up your courage. In Sook did the same to come here.
Gather up your courage.
(Stop being indifferent.)
- Say, "Honey." - "Honey".
(Glancing over)
Honey, to this day,
(Shocked)
Honey, to this day, I couldn't express myself well.
I am sorry.
- That happened so fast. - We didn't have...
a lot of conversations.
He is good at this.
Let's improve the relationship with conversations.
Please look him in the eye.
(It took him 29 years to apologize.)
Hurry up.
It finally happened.
Please look him in the eye.
- In Sook. - We won't interfere.
Honey.
(Will they tear down the wall after 29 years?)
(It's hard for her to open her mouth.)
- Honey. - Great.
(Honey)
(It's the 1st step to dissolve 29 years of resentment.)
I hope you would follow...
what you said on the show.
I acknowledge...
my wrongdoings.
I will be good to you.
"I love you."
(In all of a sudden?)
That came out of nowhere.
They are a married couple. Look each other in the eye.
He keeps looking at In Sook.
"Let's love each other."
He keeps looking at you.
(Please look each other in the eye.)
(Glancing over)
Please look each other in the eye.
- Yes. - He needs to answer.
Sir, please answer.
Promise to do as you said.
I love you.
My goodness.
He is a loving husband.
He knows how to be a loving husband.
This is good.
Let's take this further.
Sir, please say something to your daughter.
She doesn't want that.
I know it can be awkward, but it has to start somewhere.
Tell your children,
"Sleep someplace else tonight."
My goodness.
"Go to your grandma's place tonight."
Sir.
Please call your daughter's name in a loving way.
That's all I ask.
(Glancing over)
- Please look at each other. - I love you, my daughter.
(It looks awkward.)
- Please look at your dad. - Say something to your son too.
Please call your son's name in a loving way.
Okay.
Shin Young, I love you.
I told you. He's a dad. He can do.
(Shin Young, I love you.)
(He receives his dad's love for the first time.)
(It's an awkward hug,)
(but he is showing the love...)
(he hasn't been able to show.)
Call your dad.
He called you.
Call your dad in a friendly way.
Dad.
Let's go on a trip together.
I would like that.
Say something to your dad.
Look at your dad.
Your dad didn't know how to be a loving dad.
- No one taught him. - That's right.
It was hard for him to figure it out on his own.
- He didn't know what to do. - The problem worsened.
That's why he couldn't express himself.
He was very lonely.
- That's right. - He struggled...
all his life as well.
Make the first step to your dad.
(A child should make the first step.)
She has deep resentment.
Of course she does.
Someone needs to open up first.
Dad, I will try my best, so please be nice to Mom.
Okay. That's how she felt.
(We hope she doesn't cry anymore.)
- Right. - I'm sure everyone noticed.
As I saw her father,
like he said before, his father passed away when he was three,
and his mother raised him alone.
It's such a big pain to hear...
that his mother raised him wrong.
It gives him great pain.
It feels like you were trying to teach him...
as if you were on top of him.
I think that pressured him.
At least from now on,
I hope he has a happy life for his children.
You'll be in trouble later if you aren't nice to your wife.
She won't cook for you later.
Sir, you must think of the bigger picture.
So I think it's a worry.
Be understanding and considerate. I hope you become happy.
They need to talk more often.
That's why I think it's a worry.
They didn't express their feelings because they didn't know how to.
It'd give me a headache if I consider this as a worry.
Those who think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
How about you come to the stage...
and grab her hand? She wouldn't refuse.
If you're okay, you can come down,
but if you don't, you don't have to do this.
(He's going.)
(He's such a lover.)
- It's nice. - Sir.
It's important to have her,
but you also liked her appearance, didn't you?
- No? - She was pretty.
- She was pretty. - With that heart.
She's still beautiful.
Call her, sir.
Honey.
(He takes a step closer.)
I love you.
(Honey. I love you.)
(The couple finally realizes their feelings for each other.)
That's beautiful.
(The couple finally realizes their feelings for each other.)
(Why did it take 20 years?)
(You should rely on each other now.)
Please help them out.
Let's see the result.
(The result)
137 is currently the winner.
(Would it be over 137?)
If it's 142...
(And?)
152.
Let's give it up to cheer them up.
(We hope they become a happy family.)
Someone asked for help...
for a girl in danger.
Hello.
(Ok Hee)
I'm a 17-year-old high school girl.
I have a sister who has big eyes, beautiful features.
She is pretty and cute.
But... But...
I think I have lost her.
Right now,
"So Hyun. Come and eat."
"What? I'll take care of it myself."
Now that she turned 11, she keeps getting mad.
She even became ugly.
(She even became ugly.)
This is all because of games.
5 to 6 hours is normal.
She even plays for 11 hours at max.
The thing is every time she plays games, "What!"
"I died. You all should die."
How could she curse so much with such a little mouth?
What I'm more worried about is when I say, "Mom. Tell her to stop."
"She said she'll stop after that. Leave her alone."
"She wouldn't listen anyway."
"It's her own life."
My parents don't care either.
I'm sending the story because I can't handle it alone.
Please stop my sister.
(Please stop my sister.)
What do you think about the story?
Actually I think that's normal for that age.
She's playing too much games.
- But the problem is the cursing. - That's never allowed.
She shouldn't learn those words.
I've seen many kids like her in that age.
I don't think it's that much of a worry...
based on the story.
The girl who is worried because of her sister...
Kyu Bok must've prepared something.
He was going to say something if you asked him.
How did you know?
I wouldn't know if you don't tell me.
I'm glad she caught that.
What were you going to say?
I used to play games a lot when I was young.
I often played for more than 12 hours. It's not big of a deal.
- He already says it's not a worry. - No.
(Problem solved already?)
Let's see what it's really like.
Let's have the guest. Please come out.
(Who's the guest worried about her game addict sister?)
(Kim Na Hyun)
What game does your sister play?
My sister's only 11 years old,
but she's into a mobile game.
It's normal for her to play for 5, 6 hours.
She plays for 11 hours on the weekend.
(She plays for 11 hours on the weekend.)
(That's too much.)
Since she's into games so much,
She won't eat unless I bring her food.
You have to bring her the meal.
She also watches videos on the game.
She watches like a dope.
That's the language of students.
That means she watches too much.
She watches too much.
(That's what it means.)
You said your sister became ugly.
- What do you mean by that? - It's...
Do you know who Mason Moon is?
- I do. - When she was young,
she was very pretty.
Now that she plays games so much,
- her vision got bad. - Her vision got bad.
It used to be 1.0, but now it's 0.1.
That's very bad.
When you wear glasses, your eyes look small,
so she looks very ugly now.
How about her height?
Fourth grade students should be about 140cm tall.
- That's about right. - But my sister's only 125cm.
- That's short for a fourth grade. - Because she doesn't eat.
Because she doesn't eat and only plays games.
- You don't grow if you don't sleep. - No.
High school students have many school projects.
One time, my sister deleted my school project...
while installing a game.
- She deleted your project? - Yes.
(Oh, my goodness.)
- So... - Oh, my goodness.
I had to hand it in the next day,
so I had to redo it overnight, and my eyes got red.
Do your parents ever stop your sister?
They never stop my sister. That's the biggest problem.
- Never? - Never.
Why do they leave her alone? She's gaming until late.
Because she's cute.
- Because she's cute? - That's possible.
Did you take any measures to stop her?
Yes. It seemed pretty serious,
so I searched for a game addict center...
and they said she was an addict.
- Already? - She went there for a month.
(This is pretty serious.)
Let's meet your sister.
If her sister's that cute,
I'll forgive her, but if she's not, I won't forgive her.
Hi.
(And...)
(how's her game addict...)
(cute sister?)
- Hello. - I forgive you.
How adorable.
(I forgive you.)
How adorable.
- She's cute. - Can you introduce yourself?
I'm Kim So Hyun and I'm 11 years old.
- She's really cute. - Kim So Hyun.
How did you feel when your sister said she sent your story to Hello?
I said I'll go on the show...
because I wanted to go to Seoul.
Seoul?
- She's so cute. - Are you here to see Seoul?
My whole family uses a Seoul accent,
but I'm the only one who uses a Busan accent.
Can you speak in a Seoul accent?
- No, not yet. - "Not yet."
(How adorable.)
It's only been a day.
I can't speak in a Seoul accent yet.
- She's cute. - It's only been a day.
I understand how she feels. She can't help it.
- You can't yell at her. - She's so cute.
Do you understand...
your sister's worry though?
Yes. She keeps emphasizing that I'm pretty serious.
She used to get mad at me for playing games too much.
(Why won't you stop if you know?)
Do you think you've become ugly...
like your sister said?
She said my eyes...
took two thirds of my face when I was in the incubator.
- Your eyes? - But now,
I feel like they've gotten smaller.
You think you're not that ugly?
I can't really say it myself.
Do you think you were pretty before or now?
I was prettier before.
How long has she lived to say before?
Let's see her old photos to see how pretty she was.
Let's see.
- Oh, my. - She was bright.
- She was pretty. - How cute.
- She's gotten prettier. - How cute.
- She did have big eyes. - She did.
They look smaller now.
Do your eyes grow smaller if you play games?
Are you short in your class?
There are many short children in my class.
- So... - You line up by height.
Yes. I am the first in line.
But there's only...
a 0.001cm difference between me and the second kid.
(Laughing)
So I haven't thought...
- I'm melting. - She's cute.
- She's so adorable. - When...
she was talking earlier,
I saw her face.
- I'm sure other people did too. - I saw it too.
She does admit it.
(She plays games too much.)
(Yes, I admit it.)
(She's a game addict.)
(Yes, I admit it.)
You're aware of it, and you admit it?
Yes.
Do you want to fix it?
I do, but it's not easy.
Right. It's not easy.
Do you like games that much?
(Laughing)
I'm falling for her.
Are you good at it?
Level 90 is the highest level.
I have a long way to go.
You have a long way to go.
Are you playing for 11 hours on the weekend to reach that level?
My sister was exaggerating.
She said she doesn't play that much.
Goodness.
She plays for 5, 6 hours,
but she thinks she only played for an hour.
She plays for 5, 6 hours,
but she thinks she only played for an hour?
- That's possible. - So...
So we have evidence.
- Let's talk after we watch it. - Not this video.
Your sister filmed it.
(Slowly)
She doesn't know. So Hyun doesn't know she's being filmed.
(She doesn't know people approaching her.)
(What's the time?)
(So Hyun plays the game until late at night.)
It's almost midnight.
(Swearing)
(She also uses foul language while she plays the game.)
That's...
- That's very serious. - She wouldn't grow at all.
Then...
She started playing at 3:18pm.
(She keeps playing the game.)
She's been playing for three hours.
- Three and a half hours. - Doesn't she eat?
(Until late at night)
She kept playing?
Eight hours.
(She plays the game all day.)
- It surprises me again. - That's too much.
- It's surprising. - That's different from...
- what we see right now. - I know.
Did you know you were playing for eight hours?
Because I was so into it,
- I couldn't feel it. - Right.
Do you realize how serious you are after watching it?
- Yes. - She admits it.
She admits right away.
Where did you learn cursing?
Other kids swear so much.
Older guys swear a lot too.
Kids at school...
Also, my parents sometimes swear...
when they're upset.
(Goodness.)
Why do you swear while playing the game though?
There's a character called a medic.
When the medic dies,
I can't play the game. It upsets me.
So, people say...
those cursing words...
a lot.
It's an initial game.
(Initial game)
I'm shy to say it myself, so I said the initials.
If you curse while playing the game all night long,
- your sister needs to study. - Yes.
So I lower the volume down,
and I play in the other room.
I think my sister's sensitive.
She keeps saying it's noisy.
She's over the eighth grade illness,
but she's got the 10th grade illness.
(Seriously.)
That's crazy.
She's focusing on the fact that her sister's sensitive.
Why do you think she's sensitive?
Did something happen?
I minimized the volume to the lowest level.
But I think she has good hearing.
She yells, "It's noisy."
She gets mad and it scares me.
Does your sister hit you?
Yes. She hits my back and pulls my hair.
(She suddenly cries...)
(reminded to what she had gone through.)
She's still a baby.
Why would you cry?
- Why did you make her cry? - She's still a baby.
How could she cry while talking so bright?
(How could she cry while talking so bright?)
She must've been sad.
Did you punch her hard enough to make her cry?
No, since my parents don't stop her,
I stepped out to stop her.
Seriously.
A flick?
- Just a slap. - A slap.
- Her face? - No.
Just her butt.
- She's laughing. - She's laughing.
Your sister says it was only a slap to teach you a lesson,
but was it that painful?
Yes.
Anyway, she doesn't seem to...
have plans in stopping games.
- No. Not yet. - Well...
(I love games.)
Let's meet their parents. It must be their father.
Hello.
- Mic. - Oh, hello.
Your first born thinks it's a worry because she loves her sister.
- Yes. - Do you understand her?
I think all kids are like that.
Honestly, I don't know.
(Honestly, I don't know.)
(What?)
If I were their father,
I'd be worried.
I don't think she'd change...
just because I'm concerned.
(Is he really her father?)
You should be concerned since you're her parent.
(This is why I'm worried.)
If she plays for eight hours straight,
you should tell her to stop.
If I get involved,
she'd be annoyed and get a headache.
- She'd be stressed. - Are you...
her game opponent?
(Her game opponent is her dad?)
- I play a different game. - What?
I play a different game.
(It turns out he's also a gamer.)
You play a game too?
A different game?
- I played hwatu. - Hwatu is fun.
Hwatu is fun.
Now, I became bold.
I connect it to TV,
and play large scale games.
Usually ones that have shootings or fights.
- Because he plays the game, - Because he likes it...
he can't tell her to stop.
(This is why I'm worried.)
Whether to decide she's an addict or not,
it all depends on the reaction when you stop her,
and it's same for other things too.
How does she react?
She swears while playing the game,
but she also swears to the family.
Even to you?
Yes, she even swears at me.
She admits it. "That's right."
- She admits everything. - Yes.
If I take the phone away when she's playing the game she says,
"Don't worry about it. You punk."
(Don't worry about it. You punk.)
- What? - To her dad?
Goodness.
(It's hard to believe...)
(an 11-year-old girl's foul language.)
- I can't believe it. - Do you let it go?
It must be shocking.
You should never let that go.
Kids nowadays seem to swear a lot.
- What? - You should fight her.
I got used to it after hearing it several times.
(What's he talking about?)
- Sir. - "Several times"?
- No. - You heard it several times?
- I thought she'd stop. - The thing is...
she was never like that before.
- The game changed her. - Right. The game changed her.
That's right. I let it go because she doesn't know what she's doing.
She's only copying other people.
I think I'm wrong.
Goodness.
(The real problem is their father.)
My dad is also a game addict.
He's close to an addict.
3, 4 hours is normal. On the weekend,
- 3, 4 hours for fathers is a lot. - if he has no money,
he plays for 5, 6 hours.
They would play separately, right?
Father plays the game on TV,
- She plays on the computer. - and she plays on the computer.
Their house is like a game cafe.
Does your mom say anything?
She has given up.
She gave up.
People say children are the reflection of their parents.
You should show her a good example.
I can't lie in front of children.
I know I can't stop.
I can't make a promise...
that I'll quit for them.
I also changed their smartphones...
to 2G phones.
Now, she broadcasts live on the internet...
using her mom's phone.
What? She broadcasts live?
- Yes. The slime. - The slime.
She touches it for an hour.
- The live show... - Are you advertising?
It's not advertising. There are only 42 subscribers.
When people leave comments,
she becomes the host and replies back.
She chats with them.
One guy said, "Let's meet. Let's go on a date."
- Goodness. - They write comments too.
- It's anonymous. - That happened.
You know it's dangerous, right?
I know it's bad,
but I can't tell what's exactly bad.
She doesn't really care about those comments.
She always curses at them.
- He's too calm about it. - I know.
Your child plays games for...
8 to 11 hours after watching you, and she swears.
Your child is turning bad.
You need to show her a good example immediately.
You need to quit.
- I can't lie. - He can't lie.
I think it's worse if I promise...
something I can't keep.
You don't want to lie to your children.
By now,
you should be able to restrain yourself for your children.
I must see the end once I get on it.
- It's a problem. - Then let me ask So Hyun.
- So Hyun. - Yes.
Were there any influence from Dad...
on you becoming a game addict?
(Is she influenced by her dad?)
(Is it because of me?)
I was only bored.
My sister doesn't play with me because she needs to study.
My dad doesn't play with me because he's playing games.
My mom doesn't play with me because she's busy doing choirs.
I think that's how I ended up playing games.
(No one in the family knew how she felt.)
I feel bad for not playing with her,
but I'm Grade 10. If I don't study hard...
You need to study hard in that age.
Are you going to stop if your parents spend more time with you?
Yes.
Really?
Was it that simple?
The problem lies on her father then.
She's very smart because she knows...
- her father wouldn't stop. - She knows it.
- She knows he can never give up. - Right.
Sir, she said she would quit playing games...
if you play with her.
Just as I told you before,
I can't promise that because I know I can't do it.
- Then... - But you're her dad.
(This might be edited out.)
- Right? - Yes.
You can at least try.
You can play the game less and play with your daughter more.
To be honest, it's not fun to play with her.
- Honestly... - Who does it because it's fun?
- He's really honest. - He's immature.
- He's really honest. - He prefers to play the game...
- to playing with his kid. - Who would play with his kid...
because it's so much fun?
How many people would do that?
- That's right. - She's so tenacious.
She plays the same game 10 or 100 times.
It drives me crazy.
I want to play a new game.
- But she wants to repeat it. - Your dad is unusual.
You can do something else other than video games.
- Outdoor activities. - You can do outdoor activities.
Until our eldest daughter was in eighth grade,
we went on an outing every weekend.
After she started high school,
- we couldn't do it. - Of course.
Since she's very busy with her studies now,
we don't have time to do anything together.
That's why I tried to find something to do for fun,
and I started playing the game two years ago.
Did you know that your friend was addicted to a video game?
No, I had no idea.
It's an inappropriate behavior in terms of her education...
when even reading books might not be good enough.
It's hard for me to understand him.
My second child started to play video games in middle school.
- So Hyun is still too young, right? - Yes.
He should realize it gets harder to quit it as she grows up.
(It gets harder to quit video games as she grows up.)
(Worried and troubled)
As we heard about So Hyun,
it seems that her addiction to video games...
is not as serious as the loneliness she feels...
in her family.
To be honest, I'm not the type of dad...
who talks to his children often.
I will try to talk to them more often.
However, I can't guarantee a good result right now.
Since the adult who is supposed to be able to control himself...
just said he couldn't do it,
I don't think it's fair to tell his youngest daughter...
to refrain herself.
- You said you weren't sure... - It's ambiguous.
if you can refrain yourself when you're an adult.
What can we tell your child?
- Sir... - If you, her loving dad,
- shows that kind of attitude, - Right.
- what could we, strangers, say? - She's right.
(Well...)
When I was a child, I was just like her.
I played video games very often.
However, I was able to quit it thanks to my parents.
My parents loved music and singing.
They took me to concerts and karaokes...
- to distract me from video games. - Concerts sound great.
It'd be nice to watch a concert with her dad.
I became interested in music naturally.
Now, I never play video games.
I believe there are a lot of things you can do...
to help her change as her dad.
(A parent's effort is the best chance to chance his child.)
What do you want to do with your dad the most?
What do you want to do the most?
Jump rope and riding a bicycle.
- Riding a bicycle? - I still...
- ride it with training wheels. - I see.
- So... - But you're in fourth grade.
Sir, you should teach her how to ride a bicycle first.
You know how to ride a bicycle, right?
I used to enjoy riding a motorcycle when I was younger.
(He bragged about himself.)
It's not something you can brag about in front of your child.
He must have enjoyed his life.
What's more important is that when she said that,
Na Hyun said, "I can't ride a bike without training wheels either."
She hasn't learned... Do you not know how to ride a bike?
I can't ride a bike without training wheels.
Sir, you should teach your daughters how to ride a bike now,
so they can ride a bike with their friends.
If your dad offers you 50 dollars...
to play video games,
would you play video games instead of riding a bicycle?
- I'd ride a bicycle. - I knew it.
(She'd ride a bicycle with her dad.)
(Moved)
50 dollars will be gone when I spend it all,
but I can ride a bicycle every day.
I wouldn't trade it for even 1,000 dollars.
I just want to spend time with my dad.
(Even 1,000 dollars are pointless. I just want to be with my dad.)
- Right. - She wants to spend time with him.
- That's the answer. - While she was saying it,
- She got emotional. - she was close to tears...
because she misses her dad so much.
- She misses her dad's love. - She plays video games...
because she's lonely.
Na Hyun came here because she's worried about her,
but So Hyun had a worry too.
She's been wanting her dad's love.
Do you have anything you want to tell your dad?
First of all, please play a game for just two hours a day.
(The eldest daughter made a suggestion.)
Please.
On one condition. While I'm playing a video game,
don't nag at me.
Respect my time.
- If you can do that... - Sir, if you want to demand it,
- what can you promise? - Just an hour a day.
I'll spend only an hour a day on video games.
- Are you serious? - Yes.
My goodness. Oh, yes.
(Oh, yes!)
Your dad will spend only an hour. Can you do the same thing?
- Can you promise us? - Yes.
(Yes, I'll spend only an hour a day on video games.)
That's cool. It would be great if you do that.
- Let's start with Jae Hoon. - Why don't you...
- You think it's a worry? - Yes, I do.
- I don't think it's a worry. - I see.
- I don't think it's a worry. - Okay.
I heard there's a program that shuts down the computer...
after using it for an hour.
It would be helpful if you install the program,
so your sister and dad won't play video games more than an hour.
If you think it's a worry, please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Until you two get married,
I'll try my best to be a good dad.
- That's great. - I love you.
(I love you too, Dad.)
He's a great dad.
So Hyun, why don't you say a word to your sister?
Thank you so much for sending my story to the show...
in an effort to help me quit playing video games.
- I will try my best... - She's adorable.
- to play no longer than an hour... - She's cute.
- Promise you won't swear. - She's so cute.
I will never swear again.
- Good. - That's great.
She's adorable.
"The Girl in Crisis". Please show us the result.
(The result)
- Was she the girl in crisis? - Yes.
(Her family got out of the crisis.)
84 votes.
(84 votes)
"Please Resolve My Deep Sorrow" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive prize money. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
("DaDaDa" by Hong Kyung Min)